If you are having a bad night here is a drawing if a snake wearing a boot
being told you’re appreciated is one of the simplest yet incredibly uplifting things you can ever hear
"i am not at all physically attracted to you"
is an absolutely valid reason to not want to date someone.
People had the nerve to call me shallow for this.
By the way, it’s also totally cool to turn someone down without explaining your reasons. You are not interested, no will suffice. Do not feel pressured to explain your decisions to someone else.